Im worried that because it has been so long. Will she not want me to be a part of their lives anymore after i decided to walk out on her. I was scared at the time, but now i guess i have had time to think and i do want to be in her life. She has been told by mutual friends that i want to get back with her, but she has said that im a jerk and that i dont deserve to be with her or our child. I dont even know the gender of our child. I feel bad because i see guys walking round with their children and it seems like im missing out. i know it was terrible of me to walk out on her, but i was worried, nervous, scared all rolled into one, so all i could think about was running away and not being apart of their lives, but i made a big mistake, but i do want to get back with my Ex. We were together for 2 years and i dont want it to stop. im so confused, please need advice?How do i get back into my pregnant ex girlfriend life after i left her when she told me she was pregnant?
Its natural to be scared when you hear youre about to be a dad, especially if it is something youve never considered before. She was probably scared as well, and its unfortunate that your method of dealing with that was to flee. But unless theres more to it shell forgive you..
Watch love stories. You need to woo her. Show her that you care not only about the baby, but about her as well. Expecting mothers hear more ;hows baby?; than a heart felt ;how are YOU doing?; If she doesnt give you the time of day, write it in a letter. Its not very often a woman will tear up a letter, at least without reading it first, and especially if you send it with flowers.
You need to make up for the hurt you caused, and the lost time. Get up to date on the stage your baby is in and show her that you are putting and effort in and that you do care. Check out this site http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/??/a> .. it will give you a week by week update on the development of your child.
Try buying her something for the baby, and something for her that you know shell like.
In most cases by the time the baby comes she will be more than happy to rekindle your love, especially if you are there during the birth, the birth of your baby is a very intimate moment. But dont take offense if she says no, it is ultimately her decision if you are there or not. If it doesnt work out between the two of you you do still have rights to that baby, and I suggest you follow through when you say that you are there for your child. Even if you are not with her you will still have a child to love, and love you back. And having a child is a wonderful, and fulfilling thing to have.How do i get back into my pregnant ex girlfriend life after i left her when she told me she was pregnant?
Call her and ask her out for a dinner date to talk things over. Ask her to at least give you that chance, no strings attached. Explain how you feel and how youre sorry and how you want to be with her and the baby. Good luck!
if it were me I wouldnt. Just being honest, because that shouldve been a very important part in your relationship, not only that that was the time she needed you the most. Learn to make sacrifices for her.
Better start groveling then..
Yes. Try to reunite with her and ask her to marry you. Explain that you were a complete coward and a terrible example of what a man truly is. Ask her to forgive you, tell her that you dont want a future without her, but that if she chooses not to get back together with you, that you will be there to support your child no matter what and then hand her your first child support payment right then and there.
Anything less is, well....not enough.
Man up.
grovel grovel grovel....oh...and a bloody damn good apology. all this u have just said....you need to be telling her this!!!!! she is probably looking for answers too....go and give them to her and try and make some sense of it all. between u there is alot to discuss but try and make her understand! ur both parents and this child needs you both! u should concentrate on the child right now....! she is not going to take you back just like that.....you need to concentrate on building a neutral relationship with her and regaining some trust. hope it works out.....x
Youre going to have to talk to her yourself, face to face. No more of this waiting for her friends to tell her for you. Step up, be a man, and tell her how you feel and why you left, apologize profusely and tell her that you desperately want her and the baby you helped make in your life. Even if shes still mad (she DOES have a very good reason to be very angry with you) tell her that you want to do right by her and her unborn child. Ask her when her next prenatal appointment is and go to it with her. Offer to pay for it. Tell her you want to share the financial burden of raising a baby. You need to understand that she is worried, scared, and nervous just like you were, only she cant run away from it. So if she tells you to go screw yourself, cut her some slack and try again. Dont run away again, or youll only be living up to her worst expectations. Good luck.
Send her a text message and see if she responds. If she doesnt, send an email. You will get a response of some sort. Expect to be treated a little cold, you have it coming to you! If you want to win her back your going to have to understand her feeling and be willing to be there at the fullest capacity. She may never come back to you at first, but if you give it time...she may come around. You have a child with her, if all else fails be a good father and the rest is fate.
you will get her back, she is 5 months pregnant, right now she is more desperate than ever. Plus no other guy is going to want to get with some pregnant chick.
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